Not exactly James Bond, but sometimes I feel like I am battling an enemy in plain sight. This one would be my step-son, who this morning was irritated because he did not get to go to Kwik Trip for breakfast. He did not want to eat his bagel, so he put his bagel and plate on the top of the refrigerator. Why???? - "Because the dogs will eat it if I leave it on the counter".
So I say "Are you planning on eating it later?", to which the answer is "No". No my wife is unhappy with me as I did not communicate to him in a positive fashion. This is true - WTF is so difficult in throwing something away rather than just setting it anywhere you damn well feel like because you cannot be bothered with cleaning up after yourself.
So now again somehow his absolute selfishness and laziness is somehow my fault.
Ugh
The thing here is. Can you change it, him, or her? Should you change it, him, or her? If you tried hiw do think it would play out? Or do you refer to pade 417 ?
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